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Listen up, because what I am going to say will change your life. Sort of sounds like most relationships to you? It should.
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It is merely our means of sexual gratification that differ.
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Some subs are dishonest about their play likes and dislikes in the scene. Everyone has limits, likes, and dislikes, and one should be comfortable stating them, especially in a close partnership.
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After all, Dominants' enjoy pushing limits and seeing just how much a submissive can endure. Common sense seems like a trivial thing - but it isn't.
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